In recent times, a concerning trend has emerged among many Catholics in Nigeria, particularly in the Western region. Some individuals who chose to stay away from the Church, citing dissatisfaction with their treatment by priests or a perceived lack of concern during times of personal crisis. This exodus often leads them to seek solace in other Churches or, worse, to abandon their faith altogether.

It is imperative to address this phenomenon, as it reflects a misunderstanding of the essence of the Catholic Church and the role of its members. Firstly, it is crucial to recognize that the Catholic Church is not solely the domain of priests; it belongs to the entire congregation. The Church is a community of believers, united in faith, and each member plays a vital role in its life. When individuals leave due to feeling mistreated or ignored, they display an act of immaturity while failing to appreciate their responsibility within this community. Instead of retreating in silence, it is essential to voice concerns. Open communication fosters understanding and growth. By speaking up, congregants can help rectify situations that may arise from misunderstandings or oversights.

Moreover, many Catholics venture into other denominations in search of miracles, not believing or rather ignorant of their power and worth as baptized individuals. This action is tantamount to the submission of the Israelites of old to the Egyptians. This perception is fundamentally flawed. A baptized Catholics without any doubt possess the power to perform miracles through faith. The sacraments and the teachings of the Church equip Catholics with the spiritual tools necessary to effect change in our lives and the lives of others. The desire for miracles during the periods of life challenges should not lead Catholics away from their roots but rather inspire us to deepen our faith and understanding of our capabilities as children of God. The idea of breaking away from the Church due to misunderstandings is similar to severing ties with a biological family over a disagreement.

Families experience conflicts, yet reconciliation often strengthens bonds. The same principle applies to our relationship with the Church. Instead of abandoning our spiritual home, we should seek amicable resolutions to conflicts. Engaging in dialogue with priests, religious and fellow parishioners can lead to healing and growth within the community. This should not be a one-sided affair; in other words, as it is applicable to parishioners, so it is with Priests and Religious.

In terms of prayer, the Catholic Church offers unparalleled resources for spiritual nourishment. Many may feel inadequate and distracted in their prayer life, but there are numerous prayer books available that can guide even the most hesitant believer. These prayers carry the same weight as spontaneous prayers uttered in moments of desperation. The effectiveness of prayer lies not in eloquence but in sincerity and faith. It is essential to remember that while God hears all prayers, not every request is granted. This does not diminish His love or power; rather, it highlights the importance of trust in His divine plan. Consider the Apostle Paul, who pleaded with God to remove a personal affliction. God's response was not a removal of the burden but a reminder that His grace was sufficient.

Similarly, many biblical figures faced significant challenges—Moses struggled with speech impediments, Job endured profound suffering, and Jesus Himself experienced anguish in Gethsemane. These are powerful people that performed several miracles. Their stories and several others should remind Catholics that trials are part of human experience, even for those closest to God. This is the sad truth that members from other denomination are beginning to realise.

Evidence available is as near to us as google; apart from personal discussion with them. Whereas, while they are beginning to realize the truth of the faith gradually, Catholics, immersed in the truth, are confused hence running from pillar-to-pole. It is also vital to acknowledge that priests are human beings who face their own struggles and vulnerabilities – including that of their individual families. They may not always be able to attend to every need within their congregation due to various pressures and responsibilities. This does not equate to indifference; rather, it reflects the reality of their human limitations.

I know of Priests who can summon the dead yet faces serious health challenge. As congregants, we must cultivate empathy and understanding toward our spiritual leaders. This is not the same as keeping quiet in the midst of actions that can lead the sheep astray. For those who feel overlooked during difficult times, it is essential to communicate openly about personal challenges.

More so, because other congregants are very active and behave in the Church as though they have no challenges does not mean all is well. Often, fellow parishioners may be unaware of what someone is going through unless they express it. Sharing struggles to the right person especially by those whose faith has not reached the level of maturity where they can live with the situation can foster community support and solidarity. Joining a group within the Church can also enhance one’s sense of belonging and visibility. Being part of a ministry or fellowship provides opportunities for connection and support, making it easier for others to notice when someone is absent or in need – thereafter relaying such to the appropriate authority.

Furthermore, it is crucial for all Catholics to remember that their voices matter within the Church. Instead of resorting to quitting when faced with challenges or disappointments, they should put on maturity, advocating for themselves and others. Engaging in constructive dialogue can lead to positive changes and strengthen the community as a whole.

In conclusion, the decision to leave the Catholic Church over perceived mistreatment or neglect is immature, it reflects a misunderstanding of its nature and purpose. The Church is a living body composed of imperfect individuals striving for holiness together. By fostering open communication, embracing our identity as baptized believers, seeking resolution rather than separation, and supporting one another through challenges, we can create a more vibrant and compassionate Church community.

Let us remember that our faith journey is not meant to be walked alone. Together, we can navigate misunderstandings, celebrate our shared beliefs, and grow stronger as a community united in Christ. The Catholic Church is our home; let us nurture it with love, understanding, and an unwavering commitment to one another.