Dr. Helen Titilola OLOJEDE

As we find ourselves in these starting days of 2026, I've been thinking about how natural it is to pause and take stock of where we have been in 2025 and where we are heading to this 2026. Many of us would have made New Year's resolutions, and I wanted to share some thoughts that have been stirring in my heart, inspired by C.S. Lewis and his reflections on what we might need to release in order to draw closer to God.

First, I have been asking myself about how I spend my time. How many hours do I lose scrolling through social media? What sort of television programmes, news, books, or videos am I filling my mind with? Do these things nourish my soul or bring me closer to God? If I'm honest, some of them don't. Perhaps you've noticed this in your own life too. Ephesians reminds us to be careful how we live, to make good use of every opportunity because these days are precious. Matthew tells us that our hearts follow our treasures. So I'm wondering, what might we both need to let go of because it simply adds nothing of real value to our lives?

Second, I've been reflecting on the people I surround myself with. Do my friends encourage me to grow, or do some of them pull me down? This isn't about being judgmental, but about recognizing that we become like those we spend time with. First Corinthians warns us plainly that bad company ruins good character. Are there relationships in your life, as there are in mine that seem to drain rather than uplift? Proverbs puts it even more directly, telling us that keeping company with the wise makes us wise, whilst foolish companions can lead us astray. Perhaps this season is inviting us to gently reassess our circles.

Finally, I'm challenged by the call to stop criticizing and judging others. Can I learn to see people as God sees them, as worthy of love and grace? Lewis understood something profound: there's a direct connection between our spiritual growth and how we speak about others. When I gossip or pass harsh judgment, I'm not just harming others, I'm stunting my own growth. The sins of the heart and mouth matter more than we often admit.

These are uncomfortable questions, I know. They have been uncomfortable for me, too. But as we enter 2026, perhaps we are being invited to make space for what truly matters by releasing what doesn't.

We will continue exploring these thoughts next week. Until then, may the peace that Christmas brings remain with you always.

Happy New Year.